What if strength is not holding back the tears, pushing on, or pretending everything’s fine? What if true strength is the quiet courage to sit with your emotions, questioning your mind, and greet yourself with kindness?
At Tammy Ketura, we challenge the cultural mythology that being “strong all the time” equates to shutting down emotion and pushing through pain. Particularly in critical times such as separation, divorce, or relationship transition, such a belief can intensify our suffering rather than helping us heal. The reality is: softness is not weakness—it’s the key to resilient sustainability.
Through our signature programs—Separation & Divorce 101: Supporting Myself (and My Dependents?) to Transition Kindly and Loving What Is®: Embracing Love in Relationship—we offer a radically different approach to Overcoming Life Challenges and navigating Life Transition Support.
When Life Turns You Inside Out, Turn Inward
Separation and divorce aren’t just external events; they shake us internally—disrupting routines, identities, roles, and hopes. Even when the situation is amicable, the emotional landscape can feel overwhelming. And yet, society expects us to “stay strong.”
That’s where our work begins. Using The Work of Byron Katie®, a practice also known as Inquiry-Based Stress Reduction®, we guide individuals to meet their pain, fear, or confusion—not with resistance, but with curiosity. The Work is simply four questions and turnarounds that help unravel stressful beliefs and reveal the truth beneath our suffering.
This is not therapy, advice, or spiritual bypassing. It’s a practical, accessible tool for real transformation—a tool rooted in your own answers. This approach provides the emotional clarity and calm needed to navigate Overcoming Life Challenges with grace, especially when legal processes, co-parenting, or personal triggers make things feel impossible.
Why Choose Tammy Ketura?
Tammy Ketura is a Certified Facilitator of The Work of Byron Katie®, sociologist, bestselling author, mother, and someone who has lived through a bi-national divorce herself. Her deeply personal and professional experience offers not just structure and guidance—but empathy.
Here’s what makes our courses unique:
- No advice, no tips—just your truth
- Live online sessions with recordings
- Optional 1:1 mentoring at reduced rates
- Weekly group sessions that build clarity, confidence, and calm
- A space to be seen, heard, and supported without judgment
This is Life Transition Support in its truest form—designed to help you return to your center, where your decisions come from clarity rather than fear.
From Pressure to Presence
A course participant once shared, “I clean up my emotional mess, and my daughter becomes free. I address my fears, and she becomes happier.” This is the ripple effect of choosing softness. In Separation & Divorce 101, you learn to process guilt, shame, anger, and anxiety—not as problems to fix, but as messengers guiding you back to your internal wisdom.
Similarly, in Loving What Is®, we explore how to nurture love and partnership by releasing outdated expectations and stories. Whether you’re partnered, divorced, or somewhere in between, this course offers tools to dissolve conflict and reconnect with yourself and your relationships in a powerful new way.
Both courses include group work, optional peer partnerships, and the chance to practice The Work with others—amplifying the insights and creating a supportive community around Overcoming Life Challenges.
Softness Leads the Way
You don’t need to “stay strong” by holding it all together. Real strength is being willing to fall apart, ask questions, and listen for answers that come from your heart—not fear, pressure, or habit.Join us for our upcoming eCourses and experience what it means to meet yourself fully—and finally breathe again.
This is your invitation to true Life Transition Support—from the inside out. Visit Tammy Ketura to learn more and register yourself for the course and see the positive change in you. See yourself having the strength, the strength of softness and courage.
